Nudism With Our Wives
COUPLES ENJOYING A NUDIST LIFE
When I asked my wife if she would be willing to give nudism a try, she asked what my angle was. I delivered the usual "oh, it's just really natural, and Europeans do it..." and a number of other reasons not truly my own, to which she responded, "Whatever you want, dear."
Often the first thing a man thinks is, really? What's this really mean? You know, the usual over-analyzing and paranoia. When I figured out she was just trying to please me and no other motives were involved, I set the date. We lived within an hour's drive of a 'gonzo' nude beach (meaning not really legally sanctioned) in Southern California.
"When She Said Yes I Felt Like
I'd Won Lottery"
That was lottery win number one. When she said I could take her picture, and smilingly posed for me, striking several wholly normal and a few provocative postures, and said yes when I asked "What if I shared them?"--that was lottery win number two. I didn't realize until that moment how highly eroticizing nudism could be for a couple. Believe me, it is...
Is Nudism Sensual To Her?
For example, it can lead to interesting discussions. Lying on the beach, fully limp, while basking in the sun, a naked man walked by us and gave my wife some rather intent appreciation. When he passed on I told her about it. I asked if she liked it, being completely naked and viewed by strange men. She asked if I really wanted to know. Sure. Yes, she liked it, though she didn't know until that moment that she would.
What this incident and others like it produced, now that we've had numerous visits to our favorite beach, is an other-worldly sex life at home (along with a few highly erotic and stealthy sessions in the sand dunes). Seeing her naked in public in a this way really adds to my attraction to her. It involved nothing less than a complete transformation is how we viewed each other.
My wife has given birth three times and is approaching forty, and although she, like me, is somewhat past her prime (we all get that way), nothing can touch the erotic power she has over me. Sure, I notice the younger women and teens who frequent the beach, as does she the other men, young and old. What this does is fuel our drive for each other.
That's a little secret about nudism that deserves much more press.
Nudism And Being "Amorous"
On a textile beach you see couples embracing or cuddling all the time. Now imagine them naked. The appearance is very different, isn't it? But the facts are affection is just affection regardless of what you're wearing. If you're a nudist couple on a public nude beach with children around, of course you should behave appropriately. Beyond that, it's your call. See Nudist Love
Nudism Is Eminently Transportable
A couple doesn't need a nearby nudist beach or resort to fully appreciate the sensual joys of nudism. My wife and I like taking nature walks, and we enjoy doing them naked. We discovered after getting soaked by a brief thunderstorm.
We felt relatively safe taking our clothes off to let them dry. It was very warm and humid so we were perfectly comfortable doing do. We laid on a bank of small creek and, when we got a little too warm, took a dip, then dried off again in the sun. We were a bit excited to be "outdoors" and both naked, so we became amorous (my wife calls it going "Tarzan and Jane" on each other). When it was getting late we started our hike out just carrying our clothes and wearing nothing but our shoes. As we neared the car park and heard voices we quickly got dressed, retrieved the car and drove home.
How in summer we almost never wear clothes when hiking. We also found we like "caching" them so there's no putting them on quickly in case of emergency (running into other people). It adds some excitement, to say the least. Jon
Sharing Your Nudist Photography
If you're interested in becoming a nudist, know this - you will be "outed." It's best to just be upfront. No doubt if you've been on a public nude beach or at an adult resort you have been photographed. There are iPhones everywhere, and people like taking pictures of themselves and their surroundings. That could include you and your wife or girlfriend.
Obviously, our magazines are filled with nudist pictures. Clearly many people don't mind having their nude photographs published online, by themselves on their personal web sites or by The Nude Review. Digital propagation is just a fact of life now (which is why we "gate" our galleries).
What's it like to see a naked picture or yourself or your wife online, knowing thousands of others will see them as well? "It's kind of exciting, in a way, like you're a celebrity. I don't mind other men seeing my wife nude. It kind of makes me appreciate her even more." Ed. Photography From Galleries