Young Girlfriends & Nudity
Girlfriend Nudity Was Nudist, Though
We Didn't Know It
Most of us have memories about the gal-pal that lived down the street from us, sat next to us in the fourth grade, came over to swim in the pool after school or just hang-out in the woods behind the sub-division. If lucky, a few of
those gal-pals were still around in junior high and, like yourself, had developed a keen interest in matters that had a decidedly more adult flavor. Things became "experimental." The words "I'll show you mine..." may have slipped the tongue. The rest of course you can imagine, or recall for yourself.
These pals were not always romantic interests. It was understood that "touching" didn't imply courtship, but experiment. These unabashed encounters slowly gave way to real girlfriends and boyfriends. When meeting later in life these memories weren't mentioned. Of course they were still there, in memory, where they will always remain.
Ask any man in his later years what he remembers most of his carnal history, and it will no doubt be these first encounters with the opposite sex (which were no doubt his sloppiest encounters).
The Nudity Begins With A Dare, A Whim
And Ultimately, A Flash
"My first encounter with a naked "bathing suit" area was a birthday pool party after school. We were at that age where embarrassing bulges and anticipatory tumescence conspired to betray our cool. Then a girl mooned me, and my situation became hopeless. I carried that mental image with me - well, I still carry it around in my head." DLS
You're thinking, oh, big deal - bare bottom. But recall what followed in those years, that full-on departure from the swimsuit, the girls stripping by the pool, the giggles, the false modesty.
For Boomers, Girls Were Different...
"I was shocked to discover she had pubic hair. In 1970 Playboy didn't show it, and Greek statues didn't have any. And back then it was never trimmed. Girls were hairy. It was serious." (Editor's Note: About two dozen commentators you may come across on our sites have expressed similar thoughts.)
Who doesn't have a shoebox hidden away from their significant others with all those Polaroid's and 35mm snapshots you took in high school and college? Remember how nervous you were going to get your processed film back? Different times, in many ways better times. When nudity was much less accessible, it was that much more precious. When a girl let you see her naked it was very big deal. When you could capture her image in 1/64th of second on ASA400 film, and keep it forever, that was a gift from heaven.
It's odd how these many years later images such as these can strike all the same keys and evoke the same excitement. Many older couples whose love life began as childhood sweethearts say the same thing. In each other's mind they're still those nubile beings and, when the lights go out, it's those memories that light the fires they first discovered in each those many years ago.
Nowadays if you stumble in a college bar late at night you'll notice the selfie craze means a girl will expose her breasts at the slightest provocation. Hold you camera up to a coed at midnight and she'll instantly pull up her top for you, even if you look like Wilford Brimley. Feels a bit Pavlovian. I'm no prude and certainly don't mind, but it has none of the eroticism of my youthful forays into nudity with girls. Not by a long shot. Teen Girlfriend Nudity