Adult Nudism - Wives
Hey! That's My Wife!
ADULT NUDISM'S EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER
"Our first day at a clothing optional, adults-only resort in the Caribbean, I saw my wife get nude for the first time in a mixed group of strangers, and it was the most arousing moment of my life. We'd boarded a catamaran at the resort's dock wearing our suits. We hadn't discussed whether we'd partake of the clothing optional business. When other couples started stripping down, my usually very prim and fairly attractive wife looked at me, shrugged, and began removing her suit. It was very erotic. Within a couple minutes she'd met some other couples and was chatting away like she was at a PTA meeting. Needless to say, there was no way I could remove my suit at that moment..."
No, that's not Penthouse Forum stuff, but just the kind of thing you hear talking with men who enjoy nudism with their wives or girlfriends--there's something about having your mate viewed naked by other men that can be very stimulating, and in ways that stick with you forever. "Let's say, when we're being intimate, all I have to do is recall her taking off her suit on a public beach, or standing at the bar nude at an adult resort, and I lose it. Timing is everything. I have to keep those thoughts out of my mind until I know it's the right moment to, you know, finish."
Adult Nudism At Couples Resorts
Where Are The Boundaries? We clearly make a distinction between traditional nudism and adult nudism. What flies in an adult environment like a couples resorts or Hedonism II wouldn't fly on a family nudist beach.
So, what flies in "adult nudism?" A lot depends on the venue. At Hedo if your gal-pal wants to grab your penis, no one would bat an eye. At other couples resorts intimate touching is discouraged. A nude couple a on semi-isolated beach are probably doing no one any harm if sex fits their agenda. Unlike other nudist sites, we feel nudism can be highly sexual (even on family beaches, where hands are kept to themselves). An errant erection? That could happen anywhere. At Hedo it's almost a given (around the cocktail hour usually).
You might be surprised at how many clothing optional resorts now span the Caribbean (and with the current obesity epidemic, feel somewhat frightened at the prospect). Fortunately these destination resorts seem more for the fit and trim (the cruise lines get all the rest). It's simply a fact that wives and girlfriends who go with us to nudist resorts are comfortable with their bodies.
Its' Not Easy Being Green - Envy & Jealousy
The emotional roller coaster referred to at the top of this post relates to the inevitable fact that your wife will be full-frontal nude around other men, as will be you around other women, also nude.
When you see your naked wife chatting harmlessly at the bar, getting rather more attention than you might like, you can feel a little uneasy as well as a bit excited. There may even be some touching, perhaps in the form of "bumping into it." It happens, and perhaps not accidentally. If your mate has maybe had a bit too much rum, it may be best to not wander far. But for the most part, the interactions are harmless if a bit bawdy. You're on vacation, would do you expect?
And what about you? You'll be seeing lots of naked women, most of whom will also be fueled up on tropical drinks come the afternoon. You'll be the guy looking at other men's wives and girlfriends, some of whom will quite stunning - and right there naked in front of you! Look at it as a just reward for your and your wife's adventurous spirit.
I noticed an adult resort fell off the recommended list, having gone from a nudist friendly destination to full-on swinger status. Those places are not in the least bit "nudist" in spirit, and are usually not inhabited by people you liked to be acquainted with. This is just mentioned to emphasize that you have to be careful when picking a resort. Check the lists and forums before you book. And when you get there, behave as you might at a cocktail party at home. It's the same sort of atmosphere at an adult nudist resort, except everyone is nude of course. Neal