Nudist Couples And PDA's
IT GETS COMPLICATED. JUST BEHAVE LIKE YOU DO IN PUBLIC ANYWHERE ELSE. (OR GO TO THE DUNES.)
You've finally convinced your significant other to "give nudism a try" (see other posts for the emotional components). Compliantly, she removes her bottoms and top and voila, there you are, a couple of free-spirited nudists enjoying nature as nature intended (or at least equipped you--I don't think anyone is born fully clothed).
Now for your perilous reactions. Yeah, it's hard not to respond accordingly. You feel a rush of Neanderthal emotion (something akin to "this is MY mate") and, having been socialized in modern times, feel somewhat confused. There she is, your honey completely naked in full view of whatever presence exists on the beach. Your ownership rights (to see this naked body) cease to exist... Of course you respond--it can be a tricky business.
Our motto is that nudist couples need to "gauge the ambience" of their venue--is it a family beach? Are we at Hedonism II? Act appropriately. If your wife or girlfriends
wants a hug or cuddle beachside, and you're naked, do you feel the need to roll over to conceal your enthusiasm? Are you at Hedonism II? Don't worry about it. Venue.
If you've perused our FAQ you may have a clue about what we're talking about. We hate porn--but we don't mind genuine sensuality, even if it's rather pronounced. (But there are limits to what we feel appropriate to display outside "the gate.")
Let's just cut to the chase. Public displays on nudist beaches (family or adult) are fine. You'd do it on a normal (textile) beach, so why hold back? I suffer what most men suffer in such situations--a response. Just be discreet, unless it doesn't matter what you're doing (like at Hedonism, or other adult nudist resorts).
If, indeed, you've read our FAQ you've been apprised of our level of interest in human sexual relations. We've pegged it at Playboy circa 1970, or William Holden movies of the sixties, or early James Bond. We like our titillation in low doses. We know how to manage and imagine the rest. See Nudist Sex
Nudist Temptations Among Friends
This Could Be Heaven's Gate: Your girlfriend's (or wife's) BFF comes along on your "nudist" outing. The girls get giddy and playful and, of course, tease the hell out of you, posing for pictures and flirting, all of which takes you to the limit of your self-control. As Joseph Campbell once emphasized, quoting the Bible, "Heaven is on earth and men do not see it." Well, here's a good way to get a glimpse.
I've had girlfriends who've brought along their best friends to give nudism a try. When it happened I thought the stars had really aligned finally. Ever since it happened it's been a requisite question meeting someone new - do you like nudism? Are you will to give it a try? Most say yes. Sometimes all you have to do is ask. AM Sun Galleries